When the sister's husband, admitted to gaslighting their attacks,

that was six months before mom's death in South Korea.

Which the timing is documented.

It means that throughout, they were leveraging on this gaslighting.

Attacking behind my back and front, as I detect and we reconcile.

Not blatant brutality as she tried to gaslight you, perhaps.

You can also see that by the reconciliation emails.

They were never in any danger with me, as I apologize to them of my REaction to their applied devastation on my mom, or towards myself.

But at their core, they would not stop the abuse.

At their core, my EXISTENCE, and my pursuit of life itself, that was bad enough.

Even as I tried to be civil.

That is also shown in the emails. I am trying to avoid them, that is established by my sister.

I am saying "you're doing it again" (jealousy and trying to compare me to others, and lessen me. Deter me from progress.)

And in the name of these shallow things, I was a target.

Please understand.

Their actions cannot be justified in any sense.

By the law, by moral standards. You are alleviating them by their misinformation and perhaps by  your benevolence at my sacrifice.

Judge based on intolerable things they have DONE.