I am not saying this as revenge to what it did as hate crime with his brother,
alongside relentless expression of prejudice to affect my relationships.
But if you Laura, or any other women hold sympathy for this person.
You need to detach yourselves and see things clearly.
This is an gaslighting narcissist, full of mayhem and abandon.
Cut yourselves off from him. He will not end well.
I say this for your sanity, your emotional well-being.
It is in your right to see him with disrespect and derogation.
Attachment will be toxic to you. Please do not support.