Now my plea is about vitrification.

 

It is about preserving the structure integrity of the cells.

 

It is the difference between preserving my mom's memory, her identity.

 

To losing that chance.

 

 

And they callously refused. Because of their own belief.

 

 

You should understand that is the difference between life and death

for the patient.

 

 

And the hospital is obligated to take off life support when someone dies,

so did we have time to prepare? No.

 

That was the only chance.

 

They knew we have limited time.

 

 

 

They did what they did, out of their antagonizing emotions.

 

Just out of a debate, to push on with their values, belief.

 

 

Their belief, their opinion can stay with them.

 

However, my intent to save my mother should have been supported following.

 

 

That is basic courtesy, and if without it. It means they were hostile.

 

They can hide under those procedures and protocals but it wasn't about that.

 

They had every choice.