So earlier, maybe some banging on

the fridge door but. Not that strong.

 

Though certainly could be controlled,

if that's just not in your personality

to yield that much that is fine.

 

But don't go too aggressive on that,

it can seriously affect my ears.

 

 

Question is, just reading Ms Kaiser's

relay now on someone named "David"

and followed by how the "Maine Coon"

already knows of the issues you have.

 

 

 

Well... So far from my experience was that....

 

you appear to be taking everything as a

passive aggression or vengeance, or territorial dominance

or something like that. (Sorry if i'm wrong)

 

and what I do notice is that, for every inconvenience,

misunderstanding, or opinion,

 

there is a level of passive aggression or insinuation of your emotions.

Which seems to be coming from a distorted place.

 

Like the toilet thing. Covered on the lid, so the camera

can't see, but it's unflushed.

 

Sigh...

 

And this is after I left the dishes unwashed for few hours.

Also just cleaned out my empty egg shells in the carton in the fridge.

Maybe that is part of the reason why the fridge door banging?

 

 

I don't know man.

 

 

Either way. It's never been that a big deal.

 

I was just worried because, if such things can build emotions

and if there was something building up in you.

 

But my conclusion is that, while you will go for these

err.... smaller offenses, it won't go any further than this.

 

So. No problems. I wish that you didn't take my mistakes,

or forgetfulness as a passive aggression to you and reply

as such.

 

 

 

 

But.... I am guessing that those are the issues you have in yourself....

 

Being unable to compromise or yield. Something about the ego.

 

Something about needing to keep things in authoritative order, your way.

 

Some few days ago, maybe it wasn't you but there was serious door banging downstairs.....

 

Expression of anger....

 

 

 

But whatever the issues are,

 

as long as we are in recognition that there are no further hostilities.

 

Then i'm good.

 

Logically, there isn't. Why to build up any emotions.

 

I'm just minding my business and I think you know by now,

 

i'm not too bad of a person.

 

 

 

 

I don't say this as offense but...

 

This, overall behavior... Ego-driven stuff.

 

Kind of like something you would see in a movie,

 

like a biker gang or something like that. (Though i have no experience with them, i'm just stereotyping)

 

 

Do note that, for me, it's peace and discussion, before anything.

 

Until that seems impossible, then I try and get help. That is all.

 

 

 

 

Alright, not to make it sound like you are completely mentally ill person or anything like that.

 

This wasn't written to offend or humiliate.

 

Just saying it, because (1), I did not understand who David was, or where this is going. (If it was something serious, I don't think it is)

 

and (2), I understand the ego-related issues you may have.

 

 

Hope you rise over it man.

 

 

Whatever it is.

 

 

It's more a weakness than it is strength, don't you think? Though you may argue otherwise, judging by the motivational quotes you are giving.

 

If there's too much of that, a person breaks internally.

 

Adaptation is better than breaking in my opinion.

 

I also believe the stroke was caused by this sort of emotions that was building up for a time....

 

 

Again these are my assumptions.

 

 

 

In any case, all the best.

 

 

As mentioned, i'll leave you be and focus on my work.

 

OK. Peace.