Ok. Sigh....

 

 

Spoken with Douglas, and it seems like I was 'hustled' by the both of them.

 

1. The guy isn't in this shelter. He's from a different place.

As I suspected. As the mask was self-made.

 

2. Doug lied. And lies. He told me he's in the shelter.

Sigh. Now he tells me, he's not in the shelter. He's gone. Disappeared.

He doesn't even know the guy's name.

 

3. Stabbing someone, unlikely. 340lbs? He was wearing thick clothing.

Now as I try to find the guy on the same spot, Doug says he disappeared.

 

I do not like being threatened. So either I report to the Supervisor,

or I challenge him to a peaceful strength comparison test. Such as arm wrestling,

and at the worst, "mercy fighting". Where I bend the person's wrist. Until one of us caves.

There are better ways to display strength besides resulting to violence.

 

Whether I lose or not, it will still make him think twice about being 'able'

to knock me out with a single punch. In theory, it could be the other way around.

 

Yes, I guess my ego bruised and i'm working up to it.

 

 

4. Doug is someone who.... constantly misleads. Deviates away. Asks for help.

Can I have x amount of money, asking for this help and that.

Only to, report what I say to his friend. So I was being 'hustled'.

It was usage of intimidation in order to get out of what he did,

so I would be subjugated by bullying.

 

 

5. I was trying to make a deal with Doug, that if he tells the supervisor this,

the threats, along with me, as witness. I help him out in the future.

 

As it is possible, the friend can may attack me in the future as well.

I am making sure the deception isn't happening behind my back, Douglas working with the guy.

If he turns to my side.

 

As he instantly tells me, the guy wasn't in the shelter.

Though he said he was here for 2.5 years.

 

While i've just promised him i'd pay for his trip to vacation spot of his choice.

I will retract this offer.  

 

Now he just left in the middle of the conversation.

 

Meaning, he is talking to his friend.

 

Ok. So. LOL.

 

 

Deception. Manipulation. Attempting to be dominant by bullying.

 

 

 

 

 

Here's  my prediction.

 

 

1. Doug will tell the guy about what I told him. All that is happening.

 

2. Probably will cause further problems who knows.

 

 

 

When you live near idiots. You have no choice but to become an idiot yourself.

 

 

So....

 

 

I am going to just sever my contact with Doug, even in the shelter.

Let him do what he wants, leave him be. With scarred emotions.

 

Apparently everything was a game. He just believed that I would not be confrontational.

Then when I did, he brought in his friend.

 

Then, further tried manipulation I guess.

 

What these guys were doing.

 

Absolutely wrong.