I got 3 modes.

 

Be funny. (Misconduct, but never as serious harm)

Be nice. (If I see anyone suffering)

Be angry. (Only as a reaction to what they do to me.)

 

But these things have limits.

 

Did I deserve any lethality, from these people?

 

 

That is a resounding, NO.

 

 

And whatever they're saying.

 

If they tries to turn the table around instead asking for forgiveness.

 

That must contain some form of framing.

 

 

Because it is about the ego. They want to 'win'.

 

No matter what.

 

And i'm a good target in this situation. Aren't I.