"if you have to show maturity to your loved one, better not to have this person. as you don't show tidyness, rules."

no...

 

it is about toying with the heart.

with weaponized femininity...

 

and immaturity going so far as promiscuity,

and another life, hidden.

 

betrayal, cruelty, destruction.

 

so please don't justify yourself.