As I read Youtube's relay, the woman is responding with
"I love the way you lie."
You don't seem to understand what you've done.
It doesn't matter whether you put me on the plate or not.
The matter of fact:
This was done by YOU.
Do you cut off someone's limb, because someone asked you to?
I left the country long ago, and you proceeded with this.
And you are blaming me?
And to the girl i've never met. Who is the victim of this woman's persuasion:
When you forgive this person, or collaborate with her views, despite knowing that she is the one responsible for all this,
you must understand that you become an 'accomplice'.
Certainly not then, you were too young to recognize this.
But now you have a choice. I'm guessing you are then 24~25 in age.
It is this type of attitude and blaming, that I find it difficult to find sympathy for.
I am not the devil. I was the idiot, not thinking about the repercussions of my 'prank'.
She is however, the devil.
And so was Choi.
These are two separate incidents, one of which I wasn't even present in the country.
And yet, somehow both you decide to DEMONIZE me, by the choice that woman has made.
How is it that you decide to forgive her on this, and continue a partnership of sort?
Had I given you money, would you possibly have shared it with this person?
I don't know.
But know that, you should not be forgiving her, or buy into the re-direction of the blame.
It is her, and solely her adult decision that is the cause of your suffering.