Rejection to throne? Adoption?

That is absolutely fine.

 

However, say so upfront, straight out.

 

Instead, if you are to force me into that choice,

with passive aggression, by affecting my life by abuse.

 

 

I am sorry I have determined your current choices in this way.

 

But I see no other reasons,

 

 

It is either this, or you take my resolve very lightly.

 

 

I am not someone you toy with.

 

 

 

Do not destroy parts of my life to impose your messages

or values on me.

 

Simply say so openly.

 

 

None of this, what you are doing now, is acceptable.

 

It is in fact, a breach in trust.

 

It is in fact, abuse, by nature.

 

And you are severely underestimating someone's resolve.