If the nurses opened the door in the beginning,

that was the beginning. As I explained the situation.

 

Not after. Tony had to step in.

 

If he had to 'convince' them.

 

If they were reluctant.

 

If they had to re-convince themselves by asking me a rhetorical acceptance,

as I came in. "So you are trying to fulfill her wishes."

 

Then they were antagonizing me, once after assessing the situation from me

by themselves, and perhaps agreeing with the head people.

 

But I remember clearly, despite my knocking and talking through the window,

they would not let me in.

 

Only much later, I brought in Tony.

 

He had to convince them.