Seeing relays on how this 'war' started 'because' I took time from Steve,
after he complained that he has to go to work tomorrow,
I made sure my chat was brief. The first time about, I didn't have
much thought of this, and he did seem tired, dozing off a bit so
after i think 2 more, the chats became very short, then few minutes
at the most.
And in every instance, I tried to help him. Giving him ideas on a
new life to start, talking about business, school, location, jobs,
books to read, what to study for, etc. (aside from the chat/few minutes)
The matter of fact is that, this guy began this war as this way of
passive bullying (while in the house) (as you can see in the emails)
he completely lost control, as I got mad, as I severed my offer of 20k.
And this was about jealousy, gaining control. The last thing he said
as he left the house was, "that investment money must be quite a bit, ey?"
as he retracts giving me the furniture to his brother. I thought at this
point, fair enough, as I reduced the 20k to few k at this point.
Then when I realized he left the dishes filthy in purpose, even the
ones that was clean, he deliberately put it in dirty water, i walked
up to where he moved, which was nearby, and retracted the offer on the few k
as well.
Point is, this guy has an relentless way of 'I must abuse/be abusive' and
being on the higher 'authority'. Initially, that is how I got offended when
he asked me for help on the computer (very beginning when I met him) and
asked me 6 times to help. Again and again, I helped him, taking quite long.
And at the end of it, the request of help attitude turns to gloating,
and suddenly asks me in a blunt way to get out of the room, as in bamoose(?)
not entirely sure the term --- as he grinned, as if he used me for his benefit,
and is now taking out the trash or something. (It was extremely rude) so I yelled
at that.
This is about control. The wiring in this guy's brain is messed up to the core.
In all fairness of give and take, trying to destroy someone over and over again,
this was NOT in that realm. I don't want to create enemies either. So I try
and be fair. I only retract offers because there was something serious, relentless
abuse going on in the background. As if this guy can't help himself.
And what he did, a thousand times over on that channel. It was out of the bounds.
He has an absolute wicked 'heart', and this is the type of person who
has zero conscience, self-reasons to himself what he does is justified,
nevermind how wrong it is.
You are beyond help Steve. You know that. You fucked up your own life here.
Understand this.