and no, i wasn't trying to humiliate him.
earlier to this, i already mentioned something,
maybe about his medication on schizophrenia
(rather accidentally) of which i apologized.
i was trying to show that he and i were in good terms,
also calling him 'see - you are smart man' trying
to compliment him in front of his peers.
medication thing came out as topic to something else,
and i assumed everyone already knew about it,
since that is the first thing he told me.
so the second time i went to the tv room,
was after the harassment continued,
and i was asking to Douglas what exactly
was been told, trying to get to the bottom
of it, and if to ask him to say it in a
particular way, so it ends permanently.
he wouldn't listen, became frustrated/angry,
and ignore/avoid.
at that point, i couldn't stand more of it.
i can't risk fighting everyone because of
some mislead, everyday, something unpleasant,
or something alarming happens whenever
i went to the cafeteria hallway or just the lobby area.
and my time/energy was gradually following this,
getting worried, instead of the presentations,
or generating ideas.
for me, i refine. i try and eliminate problems
one by one. so i can focus on another thing.
further, the threat i received far earlier to
this, can spread across different people.
i have been in shelters before. i know
how volatile people can be here.
and at the slightest trigger. i didn't
want to go into that realm.
and it all depends on WHAT HE SAYS. and i had to
clear it up. that was my only intention.
to show good-will.