Replying to the relays, as much as I can observe and remember:

Seeing Kevin Yue's previous relays on something about minors.

IF Douglas stated that this was the reason for his attack, then that is a serious offense.
If he appeared there on the channel prior to the fight, it would mean calculated motives, self-justified.

As I recall, Douglas angrily scolded at John (one of the roommates) that he does not want to see him in the nude while he slept. As John slept without clothing on. He was saying he was abused as a child and the sight of this triggers memories. He was saying that he mentioned this John 2 weeks ago, and to this John replied "2 weeks?!" Just prior to this, I said, "We did not know that." "Sorry you went through something like that. To calm him down.

If then above reasons were stated, that is self-justified vigilantism by his own assertion, that is calculated prior to all this, and if he appeared on the channel before the fight, then it was a planned action.

Second, I mentioned clearly that we fight like gentlemen and not fight like animals. And that I was wearing slippers and my attire was not ready for a rough fight. Having said this, perhaps it was my naivety to believe that he would go for exchange of fists standing, knowing my balance was off. But I did not expect a tackle, following subjugation. I thought both will be able to hit each other, and let out steam. Go back with some bruises.  

He was eager to fight, but those were the sidewalks we were so I led him to a better place saying "follow me" (into the park further up)  I believe he mentioned something about avoiding cameras. (I can't remember clearly) For me, I am semi in-recognition that there would be cameras watching, so my intent was clearly was not to trigger a serious fight. And I mentioned this to Douglas long ago few times in the room, that I am being followed by cameras everywhere I go.

Whether that is time-limited, only when Adam is awake, or how far the camera can see, where it is placed, I have no idea.

He was in no state of dropping the fight, no matter what I would say, and despite not wanting, I accepted.

Whether this is a consensual agreement or not, if he should be charged for what he did specifically, even after stating my attire and to have used that against me, I have no idea.

When it was over, I said "Well done" sarcastically, and walked toward the shelter saying I will be calling the police. It was a dangerous cheat, something I did not expect.

 

I think that.... Context does count. Despite whatever was agreed, if he has *specifically used that vulnerability against me in a dangerous way. Despite the whole thing wasn't about 'kill or be killed' and that it was a dispute in words. That he could have defended himself by words in the first place, and that I have suggested more peaceful options. The intent to harm was clear. That he kept on with it, all the way from beginning to end. Whereas I suggested alternate. The *way he carried this out I believe counts.

Further, if he has said it was about vigilantism... That is vanity. If he appeared there in the channel prior to the fight. That this was self-reasoning, and something he has worked up to. It would be alterior and multiple motives.

He believes that.... what he does in repeat, even after agreement, is not harassment.
It is extremely self-centered his reasoning. If someone asks the person to stop, stating their harm and how that person is being affected, you simply stop. You do not agree then act on it, and suddenly stating your defense again.

Further, lot of what he's said to his friends, my words and actions of reconciliation was omitted I believe. And I was being further harassed. And. If what he's insinuated to his friends were about hostility and violence, in any possible way. Then he is guilty of creating conspiracy for people to affect me in a hostile way.

From my perspective, it was multiple charges.

Where I did wrong is accepting that match and going along with it, thinking that he would have enough decency to mind my wear and the context of everything that went on, that should not have been in the realm of violence.

I keep seeing on Youtube that I am the bully. I am not. How can I be, when I hugged the guy and gave each other a pat, shaking hands that it was a misunderstanding. That I thought he was being the aggressor, that he was harassing?

And somehow he left that part out?

Overall, I feel that all this went to a singular direction of his 'wanting'. His force of will. That much like a child, he wanted it 'his way'. And everything else was justified by himself.

But I don't think a thoughtful person, or even an average person, would have behaved that way, even after hearing all my reasons and defense. He is someone who is, jumpy, quick to draw conclusions and acting on, backstabbing, with hostile intent.