If anyone is bringing up my incident with
Romeo and going to convolute this.
They don't connect.
While I was indeed annoyed by his flatulence,
ultimately. Out of impulse, he
lit my toe on fire with his lighter.
Ask Romeo if I was ever angry with him,
yelling. I never did, despite him being annoying.
Douglas, was something different, more ----
insidious, and at the same time leaving no
evidence to his repeated deviation (in public) and
when confronted, storming out/rhetoric angry
grumbling/silent(creepy) etc.
different realm.
Anger resulting to violence.
Whereas I suggested competition,
as we did earlier in the room.
But to let out steam.
But to expect tackle, pummel, subjugation?
I would've worn quite a clothing for that. xD
It was pure violence.
And, it wasn't worth it.
Not enough of a cause for both of us.
Whereas I do have yelling issues,
(only when pushed and stressed)
and was only once to Douglas because I thought
(and I believe now, he was) harassing.
he has SERIOUS anger problems.
Which actually results to violence.
I believe that he harbours 'hate'.
And acts as if he doesn't.
But this comes out in passive-aggressive ways.
That is what is happening with the contradictions,
self-reasoning, self-indulgence in selfishness.
(when one on one)
and in public, backstabbing to people.
Whether this is only he,
or if there is many like this in his culture
i have no idea. But this is what i experienced.
he would deny it yet again.
but if there was no hatred building up,
would it have resulted to violence?
it is not a spontaneous thing.