simply,
the details on reconciliation was not sent
to his friends. only more recently.
hence the heckling. i thought it would
be better for me to clear this up,
talking to them in person.
and i was met with violence.
words are just words. i was speaking
gently at that. open to discussion.
it is his image he was trying to save.
what excuse are they bringing up
in exchange for violence?
i stated my intent clearly.
shot for shot. my attire.
it was denied and fully used
to his advantage.
it should not have happened in that way.
so if his friends are there backing him up.
they were the ones who thought it was funny
and went on with the heckling. (talking
passively about it when i'm beside,
without directly talking to me, and in a
way that favors him)
which is not serious. but if it's everyday i have to endure.
then i need to speak out. if he doesn't
want to speak fully, the details.
rather, see his actions with other
individuals who were in the room.
(Joshua, the guy from Uganda, John)
my experiences were similar. worse,
as i endured with them.
bottom line:
if he had no intent of harassment/violence
would it have transpired to it?
he only further proved his behavior.
i was there to discuss. explain
what i experienced.
see if the parts of the reconciliation
was missing as well. if he spoke fully.
he didn't.
i'm guessing he is gloating over the 'win'.
it only further proves his ego/intent.