There's something that's been eating me for quite a while now.
Besides all this.
If I am not wrong, and if I am, I apologize for this speculation.
I believe I have seen a relay saying that Wongi's mom,
said in public that "I deserved the beating" from my father.
There's a quiet rage that storms inside me, as that is the kind
of response I would expect from her.
My father was 'kind' to her materially, as I remember.
She may be honoring my father in that way.
However, she wasn't present when I was getting beat up by my father,
since the age of 3.
It wasn't disciplinary hits, it was a savage beating with punches and kicks,
swears and threats. In order to terrorize the person. And what was left
with bloody bruises.
30% of that applied to her sons, she would sacrifice her limb to save them.
But if she thinks THAT IS OKAY. THAT I WAS HIT IN THAT WAY AND THAT IS OKAY.
She insinuates in the public that I became a violent child, so she distanced Wongi.
That would be defamation of character. And she's siding with an extremely violent man.
That I am not okay with.
Wongi. You ask your mom this, and then you ask your father how he thought of my dad.
Your father will agree with me, on what kind of person my father was.
You will understand how wrong your mom is, and she should not be talking about things
as if she knows. She simply wasn't there.
Continued defamation of character, demeaning my suffering as I grew up.
All the repeated savage beating I endured, singularly dismissed by her assumption.
I will not tolerate.
My father was a beastly man, who can suppress his conscience in an instant,
and so did my sister.
But some of my extended family, and I presume even my sister will agree the violence we endured in the family because of father.
She, Wongi's mom, has no right to comment on us.
She simply wasn't there when I was getting hit in Korea.
She wasn't here in Canada when I moved over at the age of 8.
And if all that is okay, to be hitting a child in that absolutely terrifying way.
That woman herself, she is not a good person.
If all this is my assumption, then I sincerely apologize.
But. This is my assumption and some relay or thought has led me to believe these saying that she spoke about me in an negative way,
on the public.